I understand your feelings. I would like to give you some advice that you should find a partner who is comfortable having anal sex with you and you with him. He should have anal with you once and you should have anal with him once.
First of all a great cheer for Leeza🙌🏻♥️. My age is 20 years and I have not had sex for once, but I have always been curious to know about sex facts just to be more informative. And to have a great sex experience with my partner😌💫.. This article helped me and wish more comes with great doubts
This was such a refreshingly honest and helpful read—thank you for breaking it down with such humor and clarity.
I used to not be into anal play much either, but one thing I’ve learned is how powerful clitoral stimulation can be in helping the whole body relax—including the anal area. When I’m already aroused and in that sensual headspace, it really does shift how I experience it.
During pregnancy, that connection between my body and pleasure reached a whole new level. I was so tuned in to the anal sex sensation—especially through my second trimester—that I found myself wanting more and more backdoor play…because it allowed me to squirt when I climax, something I can’t do normally and now either after giving birth (only during pregnancy!)
I actually wrote about it recently: it got to the point where my husband was the one going, no more plz 🤣
It’s wild what we discover when we’re emotionally safe, turned on, and curious. Totally agree that our boundaries can evolve—and that it’s okay if they don’t. The journey is half the turn-on.
Thank you again for creating space for this conversation!
Larger things routinely come out than you are suggesting go in, in a much too long, overly drawn out process. Sure, try a butt plug or three but don’t be overly shy about going up in size.
For insertion, pushing OUT with your anus as if you’re trying to poop will counterintuitively open you up and you can probably get a normal penis size and shape dildo past your ring with no trouble. A bit of shallow, gentle in and out will feel good and should not hurt. Pushing in farther you will start to feel pressure, which can be initially uncomfortable. Patience and relaxation are your friends. Only go deeper or faster once you are okay with the present pace. It’s intense stimulation.
Anal sex does take some preparation but can be very satisfying. It is not for everyone and is certainly not for every day.
Iam a boy and I also want to anal sex with my self how can I do
Incest ?
I understand your feelings. I would like to give you some advice that you should find a partner who is comfortable having anal sex with you and you with him. He should have anal with you once and you should have anal with him once.
@Raj if you are a beginner you can try from small but plugs and if you are use to you can use other toys with exact Banana shape...
I am exactly where you are at! It’s I want but scary at the same time 😅
Ohh really
First of all a great cheer for Leeza🙌🏻♥️. My age is 20 years and I have not had sex for once, but I have always been curious to know about sex facts just to be more informative. And to have a great sex experience with my partner😌💫.. This article helped me and wish more comes with great doubts
You missed out on the fact that (C)anal brings out some of the strongest orgasms !
👏👏
Very informative. My doubts are now cleared with this. Need to have a Butt plug for practice
Good god. Those messages.
This was such a refreshingly honest and helpful read—thank you for breaking it down with such humor and clarity.
I used to not be into anal play much either, but one thing I’ve learned is how powerful clitoral stimulation can be in helping the whole body relax—including the anal area. When I’m already aroused and in that sensual headspace, it really does shift how I experience it.
During pregnancy, that connection between my body and pleasure reached a whole new level. I was so tuned in to the anal sex sensation—especially through my second trimester—that I found myself wanting more and more backdoor play…because it allowed me to squirt when I climax, something I can’t do normally and now either after giving birth (only during pregnancy!)
I actually wrote about it recently: it got to the point where my husband was the one going, no more plz 🤣
https://open.substack.com/pub/parentsbutloversfirst/p/the-sexual-awakening-pregnancy-brought?r=25ynp8&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web
It’s wild what we discover when we’re emotionally safe, turned on, and curious. Totally agree that our boundaries can evolve—and that it’s okay if they don’t. The journey is half the turn-on.
Thank you again for creating space for this conversation!
I would like to be the first and yes ill be gentle
I have done it with my friend!
It was not that difficult as we have initially thought!
And, it was quite pleasurable
Larger things routinely come out than you are suggesting go in, in a much too long, overly drawn out process. Sure, try a butt plug or three but don’t be overly shy about going up in size.
For insertion, pushing OUT with your anus as if you’re trying to poop will counterintuitively open you up and you can probably get a normal penis size and shape dildo past your ring with no trouble. A bit of shallow, gentle in and out will feel good and should not hurt. Pushing in farther you will start to feel pressure, which can be initially uncomfortable. Patience and relaxation are your friends. Only go deeper or faster once you are okay with the present pace. It’s intense stimulation.
Anal sex does take some preparation but can be very satisfying. It is not for everyone and is certainly not for every day.
Damn! That's awesome and informative, thank you so much for putting in efforts ❤️
anal sex is dangerous... its not made for us
Excelente article. Love your honesty.
Great sharing
Can you please talk about pegging?